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Who Is The Mother In How I Met Your Mother? Exposed! PDF Print E-mail
Written by Jack Cola   

I am sure the question everybody is asking when watching How I Met Your Mother is “Who is the mother?” Well I have been doing some research, and this is what I have found.

 

What We Know So Far

  • The Yellow Umbrella symbolises the mother
  • Ted has met her roommate (and has seen her foot)
  • Ted met her at a Wedding - (not sure who's wedding, but one of them)
  • She does Economics 305 as Ted was in her lecture
  • It’s definitely not Stella

Myth #1

The mother’s name is Tracy

In Season 1, Episode 9, Belly Fully of Turkey, a burlesque entertainment artist approaches Ted and says what he did was sweet and introduces her as Amber and later adds “Actually, I’m Tracy”. At the end of the episode, Ted says “And that kids is the true story of how i met your mother.”

The kids believed him, and Ted then says “I’m just kidding.” If Tracy wasn’t the mothers name, the kids wouldn’t believe Ted when he said, “that’s how I met your mother” (referring to Tracy).

 

Myth #2

That girl Ted bumps into in Episode “No Tomorrow”

In the episode around 13min 49seconds, Ted bumps into a girl on St Patricks day. Ted does mention that the mother was in that bar and that they never met, but bumping into to each other is not meeting someone. The image on the left is the girl Ted bumps into, and the image on the right is the girl refers to as “the mother being there.” However, looking at these two images, the jeans look a little different. So are these two people the same?

mother1 mother2

 

Myth #3

The Love Solution match that Ted never meets

Remember when Ted goes to Love Solutions to find his soul mate, and a match wasn't found? Months later, they call Ted and tell him that they found him a match. Ted organises a date with her to meet her, but he never goes to it because he is still in love with Robin. This unknown person may also be the mother.

 

Myth #4

It’s Robin’s Sister

How else do you your kids call someone Aunt? If Ted marries Robin’s sister, then Ted’s kids will call Robin Aunt Robin. We have met Robin’s younger sister once in Season 2 Episode 12 “First Time in New York”. But does Robin have an older sister?

Myth #5 (Most probable)

Barney's (Half?) Sister

One other possibility is that the mother is Barney's half sister. Since Barney doesn't know who his dad is yet, he will later find him, who will have a daughter. And as Dash said in the comments, when Barney's Brother, James Stinson adopted a baby, this was how Barney became uncle Barney. So Barney is Uncle to his brother James's kid, and will become Uncle again when his sister has a child with Ted.

Update: In the episode Legendaddy, Barney meets his real father and it is revealed that he has a daughter called Karly who is in collage, and that his father lives near by. It has been mentioned that the mother was in an economics class that Ted mistakenly lectured at. Also, because we didn't meet her when Barney was at there house, it can mean that she lives elsewhere - I.e Cindie's house. As per meeting the mother at the wedding, this will be Barney's wedding, possibly with Nora (in which Barney's sister is introduced into the show) and that's how Ted and the future mother meets)

Myth #6

Zoey's Step Daugter

As Sarah points out in the comments, the mother may be Zoey's step daughter. Ted mentions in one of the episodes that Zoey is not the mother and the relationship "did not end well". In the show, Zoey's step daughter is perceived as a little girl, but going on "The Captains" age, she could be around Ted's age. Since we know Ted meets his wife at a wedding, the wedding could be between Zoey and The Captain, thus Ted being introduced to Zoey's Step Daughter. The reason Ted could be at the wedding is because Ted and the captain remain best friends.

Your Thoughts?

So that’s my thoughts on who is the mother in HIMYM. Who do you think is the mother? Do you even think the kids have met their mother? It’s open to you for discussion, I would love to hear what you think.

Comments (349)
  • Jack Cola
    But if it is Robin, how come they refer to her as Aunt Robin?
  • Peter
    DUDE its because if people are really close to you as friends, you might ask them to be a GODFATHER or GODMOTHER or you can call them uncles or aunties. so do you understand, its the same with my family.
  • Jack Cola
    I understand you peter, but personally, I think this is not the case.
  • tbanks
    They also refer to Lily as an Aunt and Barney and Marshall as Uncles. sooooooo
  • Max  - Reply 2 Pete
    Yeah same with my famIly and also, they call Lily "aunt lily"
  • Annie
    Yeah, just because they call her aunt Robin doesn't mean that she is necessarily the actual aunt. If Ted doesn't have a sister or brother then really good friends are called aunt or uncle :)
  • UNKOWN
    He Said ROBIN'S SISTER! Not Robin. :no-comments:
  • popz  - What if...
    What if that was before they got married like ted and robin started going out again and and tthey got married...
  • Michelle
    Robin is NOT the mother. It was already made clear in the very first episode! "And kids,.... that's how I met.... your aunt Robin." So, Robin is NOT the mother.
  • nicole  - robin not the mother
    as said on season 7 episode 12 robin learns that she can not have babies so how would she be able to mother teds children.
  • trolozor  - der
    dude barney marries robbin and there for causing aunt robbin and uncle barney
  • anonymous
    so is ted related to robin or barney i don't think so if they are why is marshall and lily was called aunt lily or uncle marshall they are not related
    :?:
  • kkid  - tots
    i like what u seeing and i think u probs rite bnotu that
  • elijah
    remeber he says aunt lilly and unkle mashal
  • Daria Yaws
    Because Ted refers to her as his sister
  • Tyler  - My guess
    Maybe Ted tells his kids it's aunt Robin for the wicked twist at the end where Robin's sisters name is Robin. And the woman that he refers to as Robin throughout the series isn't Robin at all.
  • Mr. Bays  - Hello everyone
    SPOILER ALERT!!! There is no mom in this series. That is what makes this series so contagious and irresistible. I'm so sorry that the message had to come out like this, but who gives.
  • MISS PRINCEES
    :ooo: no it must be robin i say ;0
  • ryan  - thats not possible.
    in the first episode ted says that robbin is the kids aunt.
  • karina bautista
    UMMM excuse me but Robin and Ted aren't related! they only say "aunt" and "uncle" because they are close friends to the family!!
  • Anonymous
    Um if there's no mom then how is there kids?
  • howimeturfather
    adoption!
  • Bailey Richardson jnr.  - Legendary
    I think Barney marries robin that's where Ted meets his wife which is Barney's half sister Carly(The one that goes to college) need I remind you about the economic lecture. That's is maybe why Ted refers to them
    As uncle and aunt Barney and robin
  • Someone  - Close
    I think it's at Robin and Barney's wedding, but not necessarily Barney's half-sister.when Ted met that one girl at the wedding that he broke up, no one knew who she was, so there is still the possibility that we have no clue whatsoever as to who the mom is. But obviously it is Barney's wedding at the least because he was the best man.
  • Anonymous
    I dunno bout u guys honestly I think the mother should b played by Taylor Swift don't 4get d mother should know how 2 play d base and presumably can sing as well coz she's in a band
  • danny123
    i dont think it robin maybe its a girl that ted bump her in st patty day
  • Vidhu Dashora  - Myth #4
    In Myth #4, you said IF Robin Marries Robin's sister. LOL typo.
  • Jack Cola
    It's not there now! Thanks for letting me know about it :)
  • tyson
    its not robin because she cant have kids :ooo:
  • Jill
    Unless, of course, a miracle occurs or they're adopted.
  • casey
    your forgetting its barneys wedding and ted later meets his wife. but barney marries robin because he`s [nervous about his tie]
  • Me  - IDK
    ALl I know is that in season two Lucky Penny, when he misses his flight he says it was destiny because he would have never met the mother and the girl in the vail is a brunette and around the height of robin... wondder if the writers are gonna pull a rosanne and switch everything up on us... i guess in season 7 we will find out who barney marries
  • Anonymous
    How do we know whose kids Ted is talking to? Does he ever actually say they are his? He's going to marry Robin.
  • Brittany
    Myth #4 is pointless. He also refers to Lily as 'Aunt Lily' so it doesnt have to be the sister of anyone.
  • Jack Cola
    If Barney marries Ted's sister, Ted marries Robin's Sister, Lilly and Marshal split up and Marshall marries Robin, all of them can be aunts and uncles.

    Lilly may be still called Aunt Lilly because they may have split up when the kids where a bit older, so they still call them Aunt Lilly etc, or she than marries another sibling of them. Eg, Barney may have a brother he never knew he had (since we still don't know who Barney real father is.

    It's a bit out there and unlikely, but you never know, it may happen.
  • anamei
    But Lilly and Marshall are shown as together in the future.
    I think the titles are used out of courtesy
  • Jack Cola
    That's probably true - it was a very wild guess of mine.
  • Naveen
    Yea, my thoughts are the same. In FRIENDS, Emma would call Joey, Uncle Joey and Phoebe Aunt Phoebe, even though they weren't related
  • Morgan
    :D Ook guys its just a friend thing my mum grew up with this girl that when i was younger we all called her aunt,, bcozz shes been in the family for years,, these guys lily marshal and ted went through college together been friends ever since.
  • that guy
    in scenes showing the future marshall is still married to lily
  • Ivan
    dude... unlikely is a parrot flying to the moon. This theory is just... well impossible by any standard. I cant imagine this happening EVER good thoughts tho.. :D
  • uncle  - myth #5
    duuudes,
    you can also call someone aunt or uncle who is very close with you, like friends... it doesn't have to mean they are real family.
    myth #1:
    maybe the kids don't know the mother because she died or something?
    myth #2:
    i don't know how you can see those 2 are the same person en why should the mother be the person ted bumped into?
    myth #2.1:
    you are a script writer
    myth #2.2:
    you are a complete idiot
    myth #3:
    well, maybe.
    myth #4:
    well, look at my first sentence...
    sorry for being rude, dont mean it that way:)
  • Jack Cola
    It's true to say that.

    #1 - Very good point, it would add a emotional twist to the story line.

    #3 At least you agree with something

    #4, That's cool, no offense taken. You never know, it could be possible, some shows do have crazy and wacky story lines.

    Do you have any thought on who the mother is?

  • madman
    2 words for you all..........SLUTTY PUMPKIN!!!
  • Someone
    There was an episode where he met the Slutty Pumpkin, and neither of them even enjoyed the other, at all. But that would be a plausible answer.
  • Anonymous
    The mother is still alive, because in one of the episodes the mother comes into the frame (her face is hidden) and says "is your father telling that old story again?"
  • Biff  - Myth #1
    It is plausible that the mother could have died, but it would mean that Ted remarried because in the same episode in which future Lily and future Marshall are seen together getting high with Ted at a college reunion, Ted asks "where is my wife?" This doesn't conclusively mean that future Ted is married to the mother of the children but does establish that he is married. Ted is telling the story from the year 2030 and the college reunion where this takes place is in 2020. If we were to place the kids' ages at 15 or so they would have been born only 5 years prior to the reunion at which Ted establishes that he is married meaning that the mother would have died or divorced or whatever within 5 years prior to the reunion. Therefore I think that it is highly likely (though not conclusive) that the mother and future ted's wife are one and the same and that the kids know or knew her at least well enough to know her name.
  • tamy
    #1 not necessarily..we heard her say her name is Tracy but we do not know if that is what Ted said to his children.
    #2 I think that was a red herring.
    #3 maybe
    #4 he calls all of his friends aunts and uncles because they are all really close. That does not mean anything. My friends daughter calls me aunt.
    and it was economics 305 not 101.
    I think he will meet her the day of the wedding shown in S06E01 (which I think is Barney and Robins). It rained that day and Marshall asked Ted does he have an umbrella.
    It could be Zoeys stepdaughter, Hannah.
  • Jack Cola
    The Aunts and Uncle thing may be true, but I really think it's a relative of one of them.

    It could be a relative of Zoey, they did get close in the 6th season.
  • boob  - pnisake
    :0 Linda Cardellini is the mother....Didnt know that did you?
  • Jack Cola
    Where is your source?
  • haylee
    If it is her then how come it isnt mentioned in her filmography
  • Dash
    The wedding is ted's friend "Punchy's" wedding I think.

    I thought it could have been Robins sister because it would be a surprise - because everyones been assuming he just calls her aunt robin in a "close family friend way" but it could be literal. Because in one ep (where barney's brother got married and adopted a baby boy) the narrator said " And that was how Barney became uncle barney.". So perhaps lily and marshal become aunty and uncle because they are made god parents (highly likely) to the children? Leaving Robin to be the literal aunty.

    Also the kids look like her sister.
  • Jack Cola
    I thought, and others have thought, that the wedding was Robin and Barney's. They never really indicated who the best man was - Ted or Marshall.

    I do have my strong speculations on it being Robin's Sister though.

    It could also be Barney's undiscovered sister. Read Myth 5
  • pacific
    I my opinion, the most plausible answer is that Ted marries Barney's half sister and Barney marries Robin. That would make both Barney and Robin literal aunts and uncles, which is what most of you are getting caught up on. Marshall and Lily are never divorcing, if they aren't right for each other than they would have been over a long time ago. I like the idea of Marshal and Lily being aunt and uncle to Ted's kids because they are godparents. Just some thoughts.
  • Rishab  - I Knw the mother ;)
    THE MOTHER IS


    Wait For Season 10
    c it urself ;)
    i ll spoil ur suspense :p
  • Jack Cola
    That's another 3-4 years away. :(

    I wonder if they are going to do the finish in a way, that you never actually meet the mother. They tell you how they meet, but you don't see her.

    Nevertheless, it will be a great series final, just like Friends.
  • rachel
    iv heard that its really robins wedding when she and don get back together, and robin asks if ted can be the best man. there at the wedding ted meets don's sister, tracy (coincidence). so im only guessing that barney and nora get together after all. but i do think it would be great if nora and ted get together! i dont think they've met yet, she wants 2 kids and to settle down, she's straight forward about it (like someone...) and she looks like the kids! but nothing is confirmed yet :/
  • Jack Cola
    I think it could be plausible that it is Robin's and Don's wedding, and since they've signed on for another 2 more years, it won't be the wedding that we meet the mother, it would be later in the seasons.

    I don't think Nora and Ted would make a good couple though.
  • Marty  - it has to be by 2013
    All the future years with the kids are "In the Year 2030). Looking at his daughter, she can barely pass for 17, let alone younger, so they'd have to wrap up the story by then. That would be Year 8 at the latest.

  • John
    Actually they filmed the final episodes with the kids already just becuz of how much older there getting
  • Smashley  - The Truth
    IT'S CINDY'S ROOM MATE N TED FINALLY MEETS HER AT A WEDDING!!!
  • Anonymous
    i think who ever is reading this and likes how i met your mother should print out a picture of the scene where Tead said she is in this room cross out everyone you know it's not and see where that takes you you might not find out who it is but it will narow it down
  • Jack Cola
    Haha,
    I think that would take a lot of time, and you will have a lot of suspected candidates.

    Plus, I don't think she would have actually been in the shot.
  • Jamie Lynn  - Could Nicole Muirbrook be the mother??
    i think i know who the mother is!! here is my theory:

    in the screenshot from "no tomorrow," we see ted bump into and share a moment with a woman, played by an actress by the name of nicole muirbrook (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2789724/).

    throughout the series, there is one other episode that is very much focused on revealing information about the mother, season 5, episode 12 - girls versus suits. ted dates a girl who turns out to be roommates with the mother. the entire episode, new information is revealed about the mother. so why shouldn't she be in this episode?

    well, at the end of the show, during barneys musical act--- i got curious and started searching through the faces in the crowd. at around minute 20, we can see the same actress, nicole muirbrook, front and center- and right in front of ted-, dancing and singing along with barney and the group.





    i don't think this is a coincidence!!! how clever of them to put her right in the front. it is uncredited on the actresses IMDB page, but i'm fairly certain that this is the same women in which ted accidentally walks into at the st. patrick's day party in season 3.

    any thoughts?
  • Jack Cola
    Jamie, I think you could be on to something.
    I wish you wrote this comment 12 hours earlier, because the episode was TV last night, and I didn't look out for it.

    We did find out that she played the base guitar, so she is musical, so maybe you're right. In the Saint Patricks day episode, she could also be the band playing (if there was one).

    However, this could just be a casting issue. I know many TV shows who use the same actor/actress that plays to different characters.

    Thanks for your input.
  • akash
    this is my first post….i noticed something unusual…
    i dont know whether i am the first person to point it out or somebody already did that…
    in the first episode of season three, in last scene
    when ted marshall and barney are there drinking in mclaren’s pub
    at that point camera turns to the entrance of mclaren’s and there is a girl who wears a black jacket and leaves
    my point is,acc to me she looks exactly like that bump girl in the 12th episode(saint patrick’s day/no tomorrow) of same season…
    wat say guys?
  • Jack Cola
    I just had a look at that episode, but that girl doesn't look like the one from St Patrick's day (image above).

    Plus, she puts on a black jacket, and one the outside shot she is wearing a white jacket, and then the mother walks by with the yellow umbrella. And the person with the yellow umbrella is wearing white pants, while the one in the pub is wearing a dress.

    So I don't think it is her.
  • Alex
    So I have been scanning through this website right here
    http://blog.timesunion.com/television/how-i-met-yo ur-mother-mrs-mosby-revealed/1533/

    One comment caught my attention:
    Everyone last the very last couple seconds from the “Monday Night Football” episode in season 2 and tell me what you think.

    Comment by Bo — December 8th, 2010

    Can someone confirm this please? :D
  • Jack Cola
    Interesting. Ted puts on bear goggles, and next to Barney is a girl.

    Personally, I think the writers are just throwing you off and giving false hope.
  • steven  - theory
    latest theory of mine....

    well from the previous episodes of how i met your mother season 6 i picked up some bits that made things quite clear

    episode when ted bumps into wendy the waitress, wendy tells ted the story of how she and her husband met (coz of marshall) and after that ted tries to tell the story to wendy starting of a scene where ted and marshall outside a wedding and ted being the best man but was abruptly interrupted by wendy as she and her husband was on a rush

    clue 1: ted met the mother on a wedding
    clue 2: he was the best man

    2 possibilities punchy's wedding or barney's wedding...

    punchy's wedding and why: he was the best man in that wedding, they play the same video of marshall and ted outside a wedding in the earlier seasons and it may be one of the serendipitous twist that the staff placed


    barney's wedding and why: recently barney likes this girl nora(which i think is the mother coz she has the similar traits with ted till my mate told me otherwise) anyways going up an episode ahead barney meets his dad which will give barney an epiphany on how you should chase the girl of your dreams blah blah blah(the usual stuff) falls in love with norah get married with her and ted will be the best man and finally meets the mother :D
  • Jack Cola
    I think you are on to something Steven, and I agree with everything you said.

    According to Wikipedia, Barney will finally meet his dad in the next episode "Legendaddy" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legendaddy

    Another twist could be is that Nora has a sister who Ted marries, thus making Barney Uncle Barney too.
  • bubbly  - mother is Robyn
    I think that its Robyn i mean why does ted keep going out with her so its Robyn its a known fact isnt it
  • bubbly  - mother is
    its is Robyn
  • Jack Cola
    We defiantly know it is not Robyn. Ted says it in the first episode.
  • Ninja  - Perhaps
    You assume that Ted is the father and not, say, the uncle-by-marriage (i.e., Ted marries Robin). Do the kids ever call him dad?
  • Michelle
    Yes, at the beginning of Season 1 Episode 7 the daughter says 'Wow, that was a great story dad.'
  • Sarah
    Zoey and the captain get remarried after Ted talks to him for her and he's invited to their wedding. While he's there Zoey introduces him to her stepdaughter. She could end up being the mother event though we don't know anything about her except that she didn't want to spend thanksgiving with Zoey and Ted gave Zoey a stuffed animal to give to her. She might not have wanted to spend thanksgiving with Zoey because she didn't like that her stepmom was only a few years older than her and maybe she just collects stuffed animals.

    My sister's theory is that Ted had a prearranged marriage and he didn't meet her til the day of the wedding. it's pretty far fetched but i guess its possible
  • Jack Cola
    Hi Sarah,
    I think your theory may be plausible. They made us assume that Zoey's step daughter is a little girl (with the teddy), but they never actually revealed how old she actually is, and having a much older husband, it could be very true that Zoe's step daughter is Teds wife. But why would The Captain have Ted as his bestman?

    As for your sisters story, lol - although could happen, I think it would be very unlikly, unless the writers dig themselves into a very deep hole that they can't write themselves out of.
  • Michelle
    The Captain could make Ted best man if Ted is the one to get Zoey and The Captain back together
  • Robyn  - How I met your mother
    Ted is not talking to his own kids. He is talking to Barney's kids. The mother is Barney's wife. I don't think we've officially met her yet but I imagine that Ted meets her first and introduces her to Barney. Ted is married to Robyn (of course). Hence he refers to Robyn as 'Aunt Robyn', Lily as 'Aunt Lilly' etc. You don't hear 'Uncle Barney.'
  • Jack Cola
    Sorry, but you are wrong.

    I am pretty sure Ted is talking to his own kids. I am pretty sure that he's said something like "that's how me and your mother...."

    Ted doesn't marry Robyn, as in the first episode he says Robyn is not your mother.

    There has also be numerous times where Ted says Uncle Barny. In fact, when Barney's brother meets his father, they said "That is how Barny got Uncle Barney.
  • Damien
    There is a possibilty that Ted and robin do get married but that doesn't necessarily mean they have kids together.
  • Livija
    It's possible it's Barney's half-sister. When Barney meets his father, his father tells him he has a daughter who is in college. The mother attended economics 305. I think Barney's half sister and that roommate-girl from a previous episode are the same person.
  • Jack Cola
    I think you are right on this one.
  • Fluugelhorn  - hmm
    #1: in the pilot Ted talks about Robin the whole Episode and then in the end he says that it's their aunt Robin. The kids got foold and thought that was their mother. The name of the mom could as well be Robin as Tracy. So? Same thing!

    #2: In the picture with the Umbrella, i don't se a handbag, in the other one she is carrying a handbag. ??

    #3: The mother is a collage student i think she might be like 22-23 years old in 2010, when we find that out, so in 2006 when they were gonna have the date she would be 18-19 years old, i den't think that a women that young would sign up for love solutions, if she would, i don't think Ted would be a Perfect match..

    #4: It's definatly not the Younger sister that's the wife, maybe IF Robin has a older sister, it would make sence that Robin have another sister that she for some reason don't have contact with, but if that sister is living in New York and studies there we would have heard of her..

    #5: It could actually be Barneys stepsister. In the Newest episode "Legenddaddy" Barneys dad says to Barney at the bar that he has a dother whos in collage.. maybe she goes to econ 305 and are Cindys roommate...?? Cindy's roommate is definatly Teds wife!

    And there's no way that Ted are talking to anyone else than hi sown kids. When he meets "Wendy the Waitress" at the airport heading for Hon Kong he says that he's married and have two beutiful kids.

    And Robin is definetly not the mother or his wife becouse she has already been to collage, don't think she goes back for Economics and lives at two places. plus, the time for that first lecture were ted's at the wrong room, Robin is locked in her room with Barney! And that time he saw her leg Robin was in the bar pretending to be a bartender. Just don't make sence..

    And he meets her at the wedding, it can't be anyone of his old girlfriends or friends or someone he already have met becouse he has already met them and don't meet her for the first time at the wedding.


    That's my thoughts :D
  • Jack Cola
    Thank for your thoughts and input - much appreciated.
  • Fluugelhorn  - hmmm
    Plus! in season two, ted says, in episode lucky penny:

    "Kids, funny thing about destiny. I thought I was destined to get that job, but I was wrong. My destiny was to stay in New York. Because if I hadn’t, I never would’ve met your mother"

    even thought he had moved from new york at that time he still had been Punchys best man at his wedding so if that's the wedding he meets her he would have done it either way. so i don't think it's that wedding, and i don't think it's barneys either, couse he must be Barneys best man even if he leaves new york. So i think the wedding is for someone he meets in New York after that almost job in Chicago? Maybe, Zoeys? when she remarries The Captain and he's his best man?
  • Jaydn  - Idiots
    They Call Robin Aunt Robin and Barney Uncle Barney because they and Ted are best friends therefore they would be in the children's lives a lot and the kids would then call them aunt and uncle.
  • blitzyline  - video
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTrIKD-XqXE

    here is my video about it..
  • MICHAEL  - SO WHAT IF THEY CALL HER AUNT?!
    I CALL MY MOM'S BESTFRIEND AUNT...
  • Anonymous
    Remember when Ted says his relationship with Zoey did not end well? Could this be a hint that Zoey is pissed Ted is dating, later marrying her step daughter?
  • Jack Cola
    That could be one possibility why the relationship did not end well.
  • Chris  - Has to be Robin
    You have to think of all the other citcoms and relationships; Friends - Ross and Rachel end up together, Scrubs- J.D and Elliott get together and also Two and a Half men- Charlie and Rose ( The only sleep with eachother, but come on they will). So it all adds up, the mothers Robin.
  • Jack Cola
    That may be true, but why does How I Met Your Mother have to follow? There are also plenty of movies where relationships don't turn out like the main characters die. I can't remember those movies names, but they do exist.

    Plus, I think HIMYM will lose a lot of creditbility and wreck the ending of a good show if the mother is revealed to by Robyn.

    I think Zoey as the mother would be a better mother than Robyn. I strongly think Robyn will get with Barney.
  • ghbfgh  - maybe
    its punchys wedding and the mom might actually be lilly :?:
  • hehe  - wellllllll....
    it maybe isnt his kids...

    "how i met your mother"
    dosent necessarily mean its his kids...
    it could be that Ted is the kids Godfather and he calls them his "kids" and is taking about how he met the kids mother... and the kids may have or have not met thier mother and the kids father and the mother may have died or abandoned the children, and the children have met the biological mother and ted knows the mother and tells the story.

    And also he could be the kids grandfather and hes telling the story as he might have a baby boy, and how he met his baby boys girlfriend.

    (ps if you watch the extra features in the 1st season the creators dont actually know who the mother is and theyre making it up as they go along.)

    dont overthink it, when the mom is revealed it will be so obvious :D
  • Tricia
    The only thing is, Ted says stuff like "When I met your mother, I didn't wait to call her" or "When I told your mother the lobster joke, she laughed." That implies that the mother is his wife.

    Also, I see a lot of theories stating that perhaps he is widowed or divorced. They had a flash forward episode to a college reunion where Marshall, Lily, and Ted get high, and Ted says, "Where's my wife?" So he is married in the future. I don't think he could be high enough that he forgets that he is no longer married.
  • hehe  - stella/tonys sister?
    it could be stela or tonys sister
    the girl in "No Tommorrow" could be stella or tonys sister.

    because stella had the yellow umbrella and that girl had the yellow umbrella and when stella had it she was with tony.
  • Shannon LIDDELL
    This isn't real life! They haven't written who the mother is yet, they probably haven't even decided. One things for sure, we wont find out until the show ends.
  • Jack Cola
    Maybe they haven't actually written who the mother is. I think they have given some hints away in case the show wasn't renewed (as as hinting that it may be Barneys sister), but since it is confirmed that their will be a seventh and eigth season, who knows where it will go.
  • Matt waffles  - They filmed it
    They did film the episode with the mother already. In the beginning of season two they filmed it cause the kids would be too old by the time the final season (season 8 because thats all the cast wants) aired.
  • Jack Cola
    I have heard this rumour as well - I wouldn't be surprised if they HAVEN'T filmed that.

    It's easier to make an adult look younger than a teenager - but then again, you have 23 year olds paying 16 years olds in some TV series.
  • John  - Mother
    My Theory, I Think that it would be Barney and Robin's wedding. He's the best man in the wedding so he should be close to the groom.. Very Close.
    As for, the Friend Family argument.. Both are plausible. If He means it as friends, Then It wouldn't matter. And if he refers to them as Family, then Barney would be an uncle, Robin would be an aunt. As for Marshall and Lily.. Godfathers. Again, this is not the basis of this theory.
    Anyway.. When Barney Goes to dinner with his, they don't show us Barney's sister.. Why wouldn't they? Why did they just show us JJ and the parents?
    She Might be the girl in the picture even.. Why wouldn't she..?

    Bottom Point.. I Think Barney's sister is the mother.. The wedding is Barney's and Robin's.

    Just saying.. Comments are Appreciated :)
  • Jack Cola
    I think you are right too. They didn't show Barneys sister when he met his father for a particular reason, and since the show as been signed for another 2 more seasons, I don't think we'll find out for a while.

    I think this was just a lead up in case the show didn't get renewed.
  • John
    Glad You Liked It :)
    I Just felt like that was the thing:)
  • HIMYM-fan
    I just had a thought:

    why would this girl that we saw in s03e12 be at Barneys stupid theatre show in s05e12? Maybe she is his sister and she DID know that Barney's her brother?
  • Bam-bie
    I think it's lily :D
  • joejoehow  - is it possible that...
    maybe it's not even ted talking...? maybe it's barney talking to his kids? or marshall? i mean, they never show the dad talking to the kids, while ted is clearly shown plenty of times in the future...

    wild guess, kind of too wild maybe since he always uses the first person...

    what do you think?
  • Jack Cola
    I would think it would be Ted talking. I am pretty sure the voice over Ted has used the phrase "when I..." and the next scene is Ted.
  • Mr. Vanderhorne
    It has to be Ted talking because the don't resemble Barney or Marshall at all no matter who they're married to. Everybody wants it to robin, that's exactly why it's not. If they do make it obviou s it won't be that obvious. They call them all aunts and uncles bc theyre all teds bestfriend. Ted also mentions in the episode that Barney and Marshall pretend to be holli that the one for him will be a girl who's like him, says I love you too early and jokes about getting married. So it's someone that's open to the idea.it's not robins younger sister bc she would be too young. I don't have a theory on who the mother is but I muster wanted to get my point across bc some of you are making outrageous conclusions. If they haven't wrote who the mother is in the script then we are all wrong and just throwing around guesses bc we all want to be right bc in our minds were all the biggest HIMYM fans. So back to if they haven't wrote it in the script who it is then were all wrong. Well that's all I have to say for now
  • blubba  - orr....
    its me! :O
  • the real mother
    im the real mother stop making this fuss all over me geez ill come out when i want to :@
  • Rainer
    Have you thought of Victoria ??
    It seems to be a match, they meet at a wedding, they seemed perfect and the way ted stresses that he did the biggest mistake in his lifetime when cheating on her seems suspicious.
    It is possible that after her cake-thing in Germany she went back and studied economics
  • Jack Cola
    I have thought of Victoria, but I think Ted says somewhere that Victoria is not the mother - although, she would be a great wife for Ted.
    Thanks for your comment
  • steve
    I was hoping the mother was victoria and there is a chance that she was in his class that day (there was 100+ kids in that class room so he may of not noticed her). However my off the wall therory is that barney marries -- wait for it -- victoria. He asks ted if he "picked the right girl" -- why would he ask him that if the choose was between nora or robin? The bride asks to see ted -- maybe robin would do that, but i do not see nora asking that question. Also in one of the eposides (not sure which one) but robin and ted were on the couch and were about to hook up again and they didnt and his voice over is talked about how successful she became. i just dont see her ending up being maried. On a side note i read that the coat check girl in the disco they went to in the 4th or 5th eposide was going to be the mother if they did not get renewed in year on.
  • Jack Cola
    Barney maring Victoria would have been interesting.

    So if they didn't get renewed, it would have been the coat check girl. How boring would that have been.
  • Dave  - Hmm
    On the new episode it shows that it is Barney's wedding.
    With either Nora or Robin
  • Jack Cola
    You don't really know who the wedding was with. You never know what would happen between Nora and Robin in the leadup to the wedding. If it were to be one of those girls, I would have to guess it would be Robin. When you watch the show, just watch how Barney and Robin interact with each other.
  • Amy  - Barney's Sister? Really?
    Guys, doesn't Barney's dad say he had a daughter whose name was KARLY? That's not the name Tracy that we've been led to believe is the mothers name.
  • Jack Cola
    That's correct.
  • Tricia
    The thing is, he could have lied about the stripper's name while telling the story in order to trick the kids, but we see what actually happened.
  • Jack Cola
    Yes, maybe the mother is already been on the show, and Ted just lied about it. Maybe it is the mother in the last episode of the last season.

    Who knows what the writers will do..
  • Rinkel  - Morthwer might be Dead for all we know!
    i thnk wht if...the mother has actually died...u remember that episode.."hOW i MET EVERYONE ELSE" on a future reunion party...at college ted seems to be asking for his wife....


    well she can be dead.........

    also, the picture frames behind the kids do showcase the face of a lady with dark brown hair....so there

    and the kids drawing aunt robin in their drawing could be because they might be pampered by robin as they might be motherless

    also, wht if ted is plannng to marry Robinnw and preparing his kids....? crazy i knww...bt i like to thnk out of the box! : :idea:
  • Megan
    I just watched the "No Tomorrow" episode last night...again...and think that the woman he bumped into is the mother. I think that the jeans are the same and her skin color matches as well.
  • Carter Bays  - The mother is !!!
    Yeah i know who the mother is, and its ROBIN, i know they refer to her as aunt robin, but there is going to bee a mojor twist in the story...
  • Jack Cola
    "Carter Bays" - if only your email address was a little less generic, then I would have believed you more.
  • Rudi  - hahaha what a looser
    There's absolutely no way that the mother is Robin! ALso the producers have said that!!!
  • Meg :D
    I reeeeally hope Robin is the mother but honestly I don't see it happening cuz she can't have children also she is refered to as "aunt Robin" so many times in the show it just seems unlikely :(
  • Ramiz sohail  - Legendary
    My theory season 6 the wedding was of barney and nora because robin once tells ted to be her best man in her wedding plus its a high possibility that its barneys step sister as that would really be crazy. That being said why dont we stop with the brain storming and wait for the season to complete cause believe me its going to be legend wait for it dary .:-)
  • Jack Cola
    There's another two series, so we'll have to wait a while.
  • Iason Kambourelis  - I doubt the mother is dead
    I honestly believe that the mother has to Barney's half sister. I mean, that little clue about her in university and whatever was extremely subtle, and not many people got it at first. From my own thoughts, and many others' theories, I am pretty confident that the mother is Carly or whatever the half sister's name is. Of course there can be twists and whatnot, but at this point, I feel as if most "clues" have led to Carly, and it would make the most sense by far.

    Most other theories use really inconclusive evidence, and are mostly brought up by what that specific person wants to happen. The Carly theory actually has some good points backing it. Here is a comment from my friend:

    "1.- Barney is marrying Robin. If you look at the storyline you realize that it would be mighty difficult for them to marry Barney and Nora and then incorporate her into the group when she has a rivalry with Robin. Also, in the first episode of season 6 Barney convinces Robin to wear a sundress thus when he says to Nora "challenge accepted" at the end of season 6 he is actually referring back to that moment with Robin. However, what really proofs that Barney is marrying Robin is that Lilly seems to be wearing a Maid of Honor's dress at the wedding and that Ted is so nervous about the speech; he is not only nervous because its Barney's wedding but also because its Robin's so its even more relevant.

    2.- So if we establish that Robin and Barney are in fact getting married then how does the titular "Mother" get invited to the wedding when none of them knows her? The answer is simple; she is Barney's half sister. There are a series of hints that point to this:
    2.1 She is in college and at that point in time Ted's wife is supposed to be in college as well. Furthermore it is hinted throughout the series that the "Mother" is in fact quite younger than Ted as she is pursuing a Bachelor's degree in the shows continuum, thus the ages of both characters fit.
    2.2 She is absent from the family reunion when Barney meets his little brother and step-mom.Furthermore she is not even shown in the picture. In such an important moment don't you think she should have been there? It points to the fact that her identity is relevant.
    2.3 Ted's kids call Robin and Barney aunt and uncle, which they would in fact be if Barney's sister proves to be the "Mother"
    2.4 Ted's house is near Barney's father's house, which would make sense if the "Mother" is Jerome's daughter.
    2.5 Finally, the wedding. Why is she there? the only clear explanation at this point is for her to be related to Barney and given all the information that has been given in the show she is the only character so far introduced that fits the bill

    I can very well be wrong, but I think the evidence is starting to pile up this way. Anyway we should know by next seasons finale because that episode will deal with the actual wedding."

    Most of it makes good sense, except point 2.3.
  • Jack Cola
    Hi Iason, thanks for your input, I agree 100% with you, and seriously think that this is the case. But only time will tell.

    It could possibly be Barny's half sisters friend as well as it was only a coincident that all the points you make happened.
  • HIMYM-fan
    I agree that Ted's wife could be Barney's half-sister.

    However, about your point 1, that it would be difficult to incorporate Norah into the group: Ted has hinted at the group not working out already for many times.

    Barney and Robin getting married is not obvious in general - and especially the 'aunt' and 'uncle' thing is of course rubbish: Marshall and Lily are uncle and aunt as well, just because they're close friends.

    About the myths: they're not all contradictory. Who says that LoveSolutions did not find Ted Barney's half-sister? And that that is not why she was at Barney's stupid theatre play in s05e12 (same girl as he bumped into on St. Patrick's day in s03e12)?
  • HIMYM FAN  - victoria
    i know2x.. she was gone to germany.. but its been years since they last saw each other.. and the only way to debunk this theory is when ted implies that he hasn't met the mother yet.. but i made a discovery earlier that convinced me.. victoria is returning to himym season 7.. :ooo: so it could mean a relapse of ted-victoria.. and they did meet at a wedding.. :love:
  • jake  - why hes telling the story
    in season 2 episode three ted's grandparents have gotten divorced and never told there kids "how i met your mother" and ted says that he will tell his kids everything.

    Next my theories

    1- the mother is not dead

    2- the mother could be barney's half sister

    3- the wedding could be cindy's dont know why he'd be the best man or the wedding is barney's

    4- love solutions is likely
  • Pimp daddy d
    It's really killing me in who it is
    I kind of want there mother to be robin I like her
    But it's safe to say that it's not
    The thing is if it is goi g to be someone in the past it has to be from a relationship
    You see the thing with Ted is that he keeps on saying that is ready to settle down which before he wasn't which Ended qlot of relationships
    So with that being said it can't just be an encounter with someone because he is talking about there mother
    You see here's the importent part of this each episode has a moral to the kids
    And a realization if Ted had some kind o relization with one then it can't be them nO much tO tell
    Si isay the mother is whoever doesn't have a relizarin too because he still learning with her Or some corny thing lke that
  • Anonymous  - Seriously.
    :D Guys seriously. I know who the mother is. Ill tell you this. Put all the clues together. It leads up to only one girl....also you might need to think outside the box ok.
  • PKELS
    uh correction - The love solution match WAS Robin.
    at the end of the episode you see Robin pick Ted up from where he was abandoned by Lily.
    Robin mentions that she had a date that night, but he couldnt make it --> Ted had to cancel his date because he was stuck trying to convince Lily to stay.

    up the boys im a legend
  • Jack Cola
    This could just be a coincident, but maybe...
  • belwee
    You DO have a point! BRAVO! The writers are really awesome at doing things like that that just slip past us. However if Robin ends up being the mother, I don't see how the writers can explain the "And that's how I met... your aunt Robin"
  • Melissa
    This isnt correct.. Ted didnt cancel his date, he arranged for it to be later in the evening... Robin dropped him off for his "date"... and he decided not to go!
  • Narshii
    it could be victoria it wouldnt be lilly and it cant be robin because yea so idk il stick with victoria
  • Addicted
    I remember Ted telling the kids that Robin later married Don, so I don't think she could also marry Barney and Ted (unless she is a very busy girl )

    What about the girl that inadvertently ended up with the flowers Ted gave the to the waitress to deliver in the cafe in the finale, when the guys were trying to convince Ted not to 'do over' an old relationship?

    Other than that I have no other theories but I am enjoying watching and trying to work it out :love:
  • Michelle
    The girl that ended up with the flowers is blonde. In one episode Ted mentioned that the kids' mother is not blonde, beause if that was the case, his kids would be blonde.
  • Michelle
    Did you notice that they brought Victoria back? Carter Bays said that she is part of the endgame. Anyone has any theories on what her part in the endgame will be? I don't see her as the mother, even though Ted did meet her at a wedding, because she would be a REALLY REALLY anticlimactic mother.
  • Marc  - Hey
    She is getting married though, dim dim dummmmm
  • Michelle
    Yes, and only when Ted crashes her wedding I will consider her the possible mother.
  • basketball  - play with wording?
    When Ted is talking to the kids he says "and kids this is how i met your mother". From that information we cant assume that they are his kids.

    Perhaps Ted is talking to Barney's kids about how he met their mother? leaving ted free to marry robbin?
  • Michelle
    In an interview (probably a few weeks old) Carter Bays referred to future Ted as "the narrator". I'm not sure what to think of that, but it did seem a bit odd to me. Anyone else read that interview?
  • Brendan  - Can't be
    Ted has referred to Barney as "your uncle Barney" too many times.
  • austin0645  - My theory
    Most of you guys are being stupid. If you just look at all the big clues then you would see that Ted's future wife is Barney's half sister.
    -Barney's half sister is in college and the wife was in a college class when Ted was first a professor
    -Ted meets her at a wedding, so if she's Barneys half sister than she would be at Barney's wedding(it doesn't matter who his bride is)
    -Because of Barney's father's age, she could have easily been old enough to be in that bar on St. Patrick's Day
    I'm not saying these couldn't just be some big clues to throw us off, but chances are Barney's sister is Ted's future wife.
  • Michelle
    Yes, many people also have this theory. TOO MANY people have this theory. I don't think that the writers, or even Carter and Craig, would make it so easy for us. It would be a very anticlimactic mother.
  • hibhkbhj  - hebfrebgtrsghbrgf
    People don't realize it cant be robin. Unless robin dormed with the character played by racghel beilson. Unfortunately this also means it cant be victoria :( and there does not have to be any relation because Lilly and Marshall are also referrred to as aunt and uncle to the kids its not literal. and no it is Teds kids. One episode he says "kids? am i bad dad?"
  • Michelle
    Agreed! Because there is absolutely NO WAY Robin would have been Cindy's roomate or studying Economics in college.
  • Sadclown  - My Theory
    I Think its still not clear who it will be. The authors will have several options that they could explain logically within the last season.

    The bumping theory would be very good, but they will not take it, because its already everywhere in the internet.
  • Emily  - Theory
    Couldn't the girl that Ted bumps into also be Barney's college-aged half sister that Ted eventually marries? Also, if Barney marries Robin it would make both Robin and Barney aunt and uncle to Ted's kids. I still think its someone we haven't met yet because they still have two seasons to go.

    Other thoughts:
    Robin's sister is really young, so its probably not her.

    It says that he meets the women when he's the best man at a wedding- not Victoria because he was just a guest.

    He already had a pretty bad breakup with Zoey, so I think she's out of the picture. Why do people think that she remarries the Captain?

    My thoughts....Thanks
  • Dawn
    Never hear Ted say aunt robin i've always heard aunt lily and uncle Marshall. So lily or Marshall as to have a sister.
  • Michelle
    At the end of the episode 'Little Boys' where Ted's kids' drawings were shown, he referred to Robin as Aunt Robin.
  • Marc
    It's not Robin, on the night when Ted met Robin he said: "And that kids, is how I met your aunt Robin".

    Anyways, we didn't met mother yet, we probably will not until the series end.
  • Marc  - Robin isn't the mum but..
    Robin is his true love... Maybe. It could be like the movie definitely maybe, where he talks to his daughter about how he met her mother, but figured out he loved this other girl all along, I.e. Robin. However i like the idea of having the mother as someone we dont know, and that he loves her. Also not sure if you know but, in season 6 dvd special feature it has a deleted scene, which is also included in the feature what we know about your mother, is that the first flowers he ever gave the mother were lilacs that he gave her when they first met. So maybe the wedding has lilacs and the goofball that ted is picks them out and gives them to her.
  • dndlndth  - exactly
    I've made a bit of research on the mother issue, and i wondered why hadn't someone brought up this movie, i think it would be an awesome twist if he had been exchanging some names just so the story was longer.
  • Lisa
    Just pointing this out... Bear with me. ;)

    1) Right so, Barney has abandonment issues about his dad, right? So... if he got someone pregnant, someone he cared about, I'd say he'd be pretty likely to stick around, even if it was for his child's sake, so that there would be a structured family upbringing with both parents that he felt he missed out on...?

    2) Just because he's having a wedding doesn't mean that he gets married. He could get cold feet. He looked pretty nervous. It wouldn't be that big a leap to say that he would leave.

    Because of those, I would be more inclined to say that Nora would be more marriage-material than Robin. That said, I could see Barney and Robin in a long term relationship. Just not marriage. It seems like a massive commitment for them to make.

    But hey. All we can do is wait and see what happens, right? :)


    Moving on to Ted. I do think that Barney's sister is more likely than anyone else that we've been shown so far. I can't see Ted wanting to get mixed up with Zoey and the Captain again, so I'd be disinclined to say that it would be the step-daughter.

  • meisted'swife  - There is no ted's wife.
    You see, the kids that come on the show may not even be his. Hence the mother may not be his wife...
  • Julia
    I don't care how improbable this is - it MUST be Robin :) just because that would be amazing and so right :D
    what if... the reason Ted is telling the story is that the kids don't know who their mother is? (which would explain why they believe him when he's talking about 'Tracy'). Robin is the mother, but gets freaked out as ever and leaves, and years later returns, meaning Ted has to tell the story of how he met their mother and reveal her to them. And the reason they call her Aunt is because she left too early for them to know her as Mom and Ted just always referred to her as his friend (the kids refer to all his friends as aunt and uncle) to protect them.
    OR.. his current wife isn't the kids' mother, Robin is, and he is in the process of divorcing her because Robin is back and he wants to explain to them how he met her. The reason he wants to give the huge back-story is to show to them how much it was meant to be and to tell them the truth...
    In fact, I don't know, I just really naively want Robin to be the Mother :D :D :D
  • saurabh  - no robin
    only will say , NOT ROBIN....




    .
    HOW COULD SHE BE THE mother of the kids WHEN SHE COULD NOT BECOME A MOTHER AT ALL???


    I know it have had been perfect for it to be robin,
    but it have had been been totally perfect for "HER" to be Zoey or Stella!!!


    besides i also like the point that the writers would make the same awesum ending as the rest of the series...


    back me up here jack cola...
    :) ;)) ;) :idea:
  • Jack Cola
    Actually, I am a few episodes behind, but since the mother can't be Robyn, Ted may still Mary Robyn, but the mother is the kids Biological mother. Another myth, or totally rubbish?
  • Julia  - P.S.
    Also, those episodes that theorists always reference (Something Blue, The Leap and Lucky Penny) to prove that Ted has not met the Mother yet, disproving Robin, also has a counter-argument.
    When ted says: "And as hard as it was at the time, in the end we both got what we wanted. She did eventually go on to live in Argentina, and Morocco, Greece, Russia, even Japan for a little while. And I? Well, I met your mom." and other statements showing Robin and he went different ways, he may well mean it metaphorically, meaning he thinks they had to have that time apart and have the chance to change, effectively showing that when they finally met they were 'different people'. Could Robin still be the mother?! pleeeease! :D
  • Anonymous
    your an idiot
  • Karly  - Tracy
    Only reason why...
    its because Ted meets his wife at Barney's wedding. And how would Barney know Tracy that well when shes only shown in one episode. Karly is the one not shown right now but was mentioned as Barney's half sister. Im guessing Barney hooks Ted up with Karly then they marry. Therefore, Making Ted and Barney legitimate 'Bros'.
  • Alan  - Barney's sister
    It's Barney's half sister...thats the reason he calls him Uncle Barney....
    n no Barney doesn't marry nora...he marrys Robin...and tats y he calls her aunt Robin...!!
    i figured
  • Jullietta  - Barneys half sister
    I know what is going to happen.
    As we know, the last wedding mentioned in the last episode of season six is indeed barney's, for they reffered to him as the groom. They jumped to that from the last scene of him with nora and robyn, so you know that something happened in beetween that will be explained in all of season 7. This is gonna give the writers time to have barney in a relationship with nora for a while, and then barney and nora will decide to get married. But right before they do, they find out that Robyn is still in live with barney, hence the look she had on her face in the end of six. Barney realizes he has feelings for her too, and marries her instead. That's why ted is the best man and lilly is the maid of honor. Also, the mom is barneys sister because not only is it stated that they meet at a wedding, but it makes sence that barneys sister would be at the wedding because they are family. Barney is white, and so was the ankle he saw in cindy's dorm. She could very well be the person at the St.Patricks day party, along with the love solutions girl. The tracy thing i think is completely irrelivant. Then barney and robyn are "uncles and aunts" and that leaves marshall and lilly to be godfathers or just really close family friends. It is definetly not victoria or robyn. ACCEPT THE FACT THAT ITS NOT AND CAN NEVER BE ROBYN AND THAT IT IS BARNEYS HALF SISTER. they didnt show her for a reason, and when they mentioned her they didnt go into detail.....
  • rose burden  - The Mother
    First off,IT'S NOT ROBIN! :angry-red: Besides I think that Robin marries Barney!!!!!!!!!!! :love:
  • jjjjj  - jjjj
    i willl be very angry if robyn isnt the mum hopefully he isnt talkin to his kids and it barney hopefully thats a good theory cant stand roby n and barney together they need to make sure they end up together and get married they where together from the start :0
  • nick
    ok so i think the mother is the bass player at barneys and robins wedding because it reveals she plays bass meets him at a wedding and he was the best man and who elses wedding would he be best man at also its probably not barneys half sister just because he calls them uncle barney and aunt robin because he also calls marshall and lily uncle marshall and aunt lily and its highly doubtful shes related to them too its also obviously his kids they call him dad also i read in an interview with the creators we met her in season 3 the actors initials are bs and she is the biggest pop star in the world i think they were joking because they were talking about abby who they met in season 3 and she is played by britney spears but i know thats not right
  • sadclown  - Bro Code
    Wouldn't it transgress against the bro code to make out with Barney's step sister?
  • Jack Cola
    Wasn't Barney trying to hit on Ted's younger sister though if I remember correctly? So therefore it might not be?

    Or was that one of Barney's tactics/lessons for Ted to trust her more?
  • dndlndth  - Problem solved
    This breaking of the bro code would finally finally put barney to rest after he slept with Ted's ex and put her before his bro.
  • Marples  - I vote for Love Solution girl
    Myth #1 - Tracy
    The mother's name is not necessarily be Tracy
    We don't know if Ted mention Tracy to the kids.

    Myth#4 - Robin's sister
    she's way too young, plus they already met

    Myth#6 Zoe's step daughter
    I don't think Zoe would come to Barney's wedding, let alone bringing her step daughter along since she hated Zoe's guts. But it's possible if she came by herself, as Barney's or the bride's friend but it's a bit too out there.

    Myth#5 - Barney's half sister. More likely, but is it really??

    I personally don't think it's Barney's half sister.
    Barney's half sister would be more than 10 years younger than Barney so it is more likely she was an undergad student
    Yes, it's correct the mother took Economics 305 but she was also Cindy's roommate, who at that time was doing her PhD, which suggest that she was about Ted's age. I just think it's very unlikely that an older PhD student would be roommate with -and be super jealous of- a much more younger undergrad. I mean, they wouldn't even be in the same circle or date same type of people.

    Plus, if it's Barney's half sister, they would have met before the wedding, i.e. the rehearsal dinner or whatever gathering they have after she arrived home for the wedding since Ted was Barney's best friend and they always invite the whole group for everything. (remember brunch with Ted's parents, Marshall's dad funeral, even Barney's mom moving day)

    Moving on to the wedding where Ted the mother, I think it's Barney and Robin's (come on people, stop insisting Robin is the mother) because Lily said that the bride would like to see Ted. Who else in her wedding day would request to see Ted other than Robin. Well, Ted's sister is possible but there were no stories about her and Barney so it is much more unlikely

    Talking about how the kids call all of the uncles and aunts, like already mentioned so may time above, I agree it's ridiculous thinking they got married to each others relative. It was quite clear that they were very close they were practically family. I never thought about this semi-incest scheme before I read some of the suggestions here. lol.

    Coming back to the mother, I think it's someone not related to anyone, coming to the wedding as a guest and met Ted there for the first time.
    But it is also suggested that she already croossed his path way before, preferably when the story began. So I vote for:

    Mtyh #3 -the love solution girl
    I like this because her face nor her name was not shown or mentioned in the show, suggesting she was not just some 'random' girl. Plus, she was mentioned in the first season. It's possible that they "planted" the mother early, then just create as many failed relationships for Ted as the series needed. so in the finale he could end up meeting the same girl he should have met years before.

    I feel that when they created the story they already had a big picture how the story would end and the general idea who the mother would be. In addition, in most of the episodes, there is always a moral story behind each episode, so it's very likely that the whole story also has a moral story and everything was connected.

    The stories with the yellow umbrella, St Patrick's day, Economics 305, Cindy, the wedding, etc were added later to keep people on the hook. All those things could be about the love solution girl.

    Or maybe I'm just a romantic.
  • Dukit
    I made my coment and I didn't saw your comment but I couldn't agree more with you in most things..Great comment by the way

    The love solution girl could be a solution for the mother but and I mean but!! He meets her at Barney's wedding..Why a big romantic all gathering solution in the end to a person he already meets at Barneys wedding.

    Imagine there is 2 more seasons and ends in season 9 or even 8! it means that Barney's wedding is going to be a late one in the show, because how many episodes can you make after you see the face, ear the voice of Ted's wife or "the mother"??

    I think we are only going to see her or get everything in the end,and she could be the love solution girl but I think she is kind of a slutty pumpkin :P Ted want's but it doesn't match, and I believe the love solution girl is going to be a mistake (if she isn't that means that the computer works and love can be detected through a machine) see my point in this?

    Ted could meet her at the wedding but we might not see her like in the beginning of S05, on the class ;) or Ted can meet a lot of girls that Barney introduces .. funny thing I guess but the last one more unlikely (Barney met girls and didn't do anything to them? I mean...

    They need to fill up episodes to season 8 and 9, so it is far to soon to see the mother and that's why I think they are going to get the Love solution girl, Ted might get her as a girlfriend, but it doesn't work cause a machine can't predict true love

    If the End is the end that you think it is going to be, in my opinion it is romantic and strong enough for the final and it would be a great end. I just can't fit in my head the "I met her at a wedding, the last wedding i thought i would be at" The womanizing Barney's and the Ex girlfriend Robin's weding

    Ciao for now! ;)
  • Jack Cola

    Marples wrote:

    Plus, if it's Barney's half sister, they would have met before the wedding, i.e. the rehearsal dinner or whatever gathering they have after she arrived home for the wedding since Ted was Barney's best friend and they always invite the whole group for everything. (remember brunch with Ted's parents, Marshall's dad funeral, even Barney's mom moving day)


    Not necessarily. I'm not too sure about the geographics, but doesn't Barney Dad live a far drive away. And if his half sister is still at Uni, she might be in the process of her final exams, and therefore can't attend the rehearsals. Plus, we don't know where the weddings located. It could be close, or far away, making the situation still plausible.
  • Dukit  - How do they met?
    I have no doubt that:

    - the mother it is not Robin's sister or Robin, they are done as a couple and guess what?? they have already met!Did Robin ever made Economics while she was in Metro news 1?? come on!

    - The captain knew that it was Ted who stole her beloved Zoey, so no friendship there and I guess that the captains daughter is a lot younger then Zoey cause she wouldnt be a "Cinderella evil stepMOTHER" if she was a grown up I mean would Zoey cry for the love of another grown up? come on... a kid ok but a grown up in college? I cant see it

    - Not Zoey, Victoria, and no other previous girlfriend, because they already met somewhere else..


    My theory goes with Jullieta,

    BUT! there isn't enough proof that it is Barney's half sister! Does she make Economics? was she on the St.Patrick party? don't know... could be the half sister, could be a friend of the bride and barneys (see the end of this message)

    I think that the girl with the Love Solutions match is going to be a mistake :P and like the Slutty Pumpkin a failior in Ted's romance, I believe Ted is going to meet the Love solution girl preety soon in Season 07, cause he is going through a "hard time" Season 07 all episodes :P And needs something to believe again..

    Don't forget the rainy day with the yellow unbrella,the short version. It is the key for the show and i believe it is going to end with the yellow unbrella.

    That is what bugs me because, I think that the love begins with the yellow umbrella but they know each other at Barney's wedding? Could they see each other and dont meet? I hope it all makes since because the bid is high and HIMYM needs to be well attached..

    In another subject, Robin believes that Ted is a good bestman, after one episode that barney buys a diamond covered suit :P, in the ending of the E01 S07, Lily said that the bride needed to see him (Ted), the bride calls for the bestman and therefore i guess that they know each other well enough . . . My guess is that Robin marries Barney cause:

    -The chemistry S07E01
    - The time they spent togehter and the easy life they do to each other
    - Robin can live with Barney's womanizing past,(come on it is hard for a girl to live with a guy like barney was) Nora and Robin are the exceptions
    - They are not the same since their 1st relationship (Barney definetely isn't)
    - The kid that Robin is waiting for is Barney's and not Kevin's, on the night they cheated on their boyfriend and girlfriends S07E11

    Right? Am I Right? ;))
  • Himym fan  - Def. Barney's half sister
    It's def. Barney's half sister because Barney's dad says their daughter is away at college. It is very probable that she was in Ted's econ lecture and is living with here roommate. Everything points to Barney's half sister!
  • Tiffany childress
    ted leaves the yellow umbrella at cindys after she breaks ups with him and he says and thats how your mother got her yellow umbrella back .... it has to be barneys sister they are only a few years aparti wish there was a website to find out i would still watch lol
  • Anonymous  - re: myth #5
    uncle wrote:
    duuudes,
    you can also call someone aunt or uncle who is very close with you, like friends... it doesn't have to mean they are real family.
    myth #1:Omg who just saw that episode so gay

    maybe the kids don't know the mother because she died or something?
    myth #2:
    i don't know how you can see those 2 are the same person en why should the mother be the person ted bumped into?
    myth #2.1:
    you are a script writer
    myth #2.2:
    you are a complete idiot
    myth #3:
    well, maybe.
    myth #4:
    well, look at my first sentence...
    sorry for being rude, dont mean it that way:)
  • Anonymous
    robin isent pregnant ,she cant have kids watch the new episode ,
  • rich kolker  - The wrong question
    The question to ask is not who's the mother, but where's the mother? Why is Ted telling his kids this long, convoluted story about how he met their mother unless there's a reason to do so. I think that reason is because their mother (in 2030) has died and...wait for it...Ted is going to marry "Aunt Robin." He's telling the story to show how that is not abandoning their mother or them, but how it all fits together and why he wants to do so.

    So "who's the mother" isn't important.
  • Jack Cola
    Interesting theory, but wouldn't they have named the show "Where I met your mother"? Then again, "How I met your mother" sounds better.
  • Chelsey
    I don't think calling Robin "Aunt Robin" is a good reason for it to be her sister. The kids refer to Lily and Marshall as their aunt and uncle, too, and their not blood-related.
  • Aspire  - The Mother
    The truth is.................
    I NEVER met your mother. You're adopted......
  • Quezada323  - ITS NOT ROBIN!!!
    Well now we know that robin can't have kids. And in one episode robin asks Ted to be her best man also. And the the wedding episode where they mention the duck tie Lilly walks in and tells Ted that the bride needs to see hIm. And they also mention that it's the wedding where Ted meets the mom. So it probably is Barney's half sister.
  • Anonymous
    shes dead and thts why hes telling thd story without the mom present thats one theory but honestly u have to remember...... where he left the yellow umbrella IS where the mom lived :O
  • sonzogni  - My THEORY
    IT CAN'T BE ROBYN IT WLD BE SWEET I LIKE THEM AS A COUPLE BUT IT IS NOT HAPPENING. I DON'T THINK THERE WILL BE SOME BIG COMPLEX TWIST TO WHO THE MOM IS. I BELIEVE SHE IS ALIVE WHEN HE TALKS TO HIS KIDS AND THEY ARE LEAVING US THE CLUES IE THE YELLOW UMBRELLA THE ECONOMICS CLASS THE MEETING AT A WEDDING ECT .... THOSE WERE TACTICS THE WRITERS CHOSE TO PUT IN THE SHOW FROM THE B :angry: EGINNING TO KEEP VIEWERS WATCHING NOT KNOWI :D YNG WHAT A HUGE HIT THE SHOW WLD BE SO THEY KEPT WITH THE LITTLE CLUES ... I FEEL IT COULD BE BARNEYS SIS ... I JUST KNOW THAT THE SHOW HAS NEVER BEEN SAD ITS COMEDY SO I BELIEVE THE MOM N TED STAY MARRIED SHE STAYS ALIVE AND THOSE ARE HIS KIDS. I'M EXCITED TO BE SURPRISED BY WHO IT IS.
  • Max
    Obviously not Robyn cuz he calls her your antie Robyn in the future
  • jt
    robin gets married to barny bc in season 6 robin talks to her kids at barnys house in the background and at the end of it they where fake so she wanted kids with barny and the mother is possibly barnys step sister
  • ec  - re look at the clues and facts
    Starters we have to rule out Robin because the whole series is called How I met your mother and he already met Robin. It's leading to a character that we have not met as of yet but is tied in to many of the characters we know.

    The Wedding - Barney is the groom. I am assuming that it's Robin that he is getting married to. it will either be revealed and build up to it the rest of this season or the start of the next to find out who really is the bride.

    Back to Ted, he mentions that the mother was at the Wedding but there are a number of ways a person can end up at a wedding. She could be Barneys half sister or even a friend of hers from college. She could also be a friend of a friend of theirs that was in their life that was possibly an ex of Ted's like the cup cake girl. She plays base, her band could be playing at the wedding. There are many possibilities.

    The Yellow umbrella plays a huge role. He refers to a particular story of how the umbrella fits in but we don't know that story yet. I think that the day that he meets her it will be raining. It was nice outside so I don't think he will officially meet the mother at the wedding but others in the group may have. Her roommate plays a role in them meeting as well I think.


  • RB7ate8  - Mother is in Band at Wedding.
    I fully am convinced that the Mother will be the Bassist in the band playing at the Wedding.

    1. It could then be tied back to a band at St. Paddy's Day (though it seemed more like a club).

    2. It would allow the writers to lead the audience on with Carly (I figure that she starts being important when Barney gets serious about marriage and the what not). They introduce Carly, lead the audience on step by step, but never having them actually meet (since she's in college and what not, so she may meet almost everyone else except Ted). But, on the day of the wedding, Ted meets up with Carly, perhaps about Barney's cold feet. However, they do a flashback to something like a rehearsal dinner where Ted and Carly meet, pulling the rug from under us. Hence, Ted meets the Mother as the bassist.

    3. If one takes the fact that Victoria was supposed to be the back-up Mother, it could be very possible that the creators adapted the actual Ted/Mother meeting for Victoria. Wedding where she is working, dancing, incredible night, and time to actually meet and know the target girl.

    Mark my words. The Mother is in the wedding band.

    - RB7ate9
  • TruJohnson  - WRONG.
    He reffers to the the whole group (Lylli, Marshall, Barney, and Robin) as all ants and uncle. :0
  • sigurd  - :D
    i think their're adopted.
  • Jack Cola
    Could be, but seems unlikely - but it would make for a good twist. Ted actually falls for Robin, but Robyn can't have kids, donated sperm, so the biological mother is someone else.
  • wallly  - k
    the mother is actually robins sister.
  • Anonymous  - stevie
    NOt sure who the morther is but most important thing to know is that robin cant have kis so it 100% is not her
  • Jack Cola
    Unless the mother is Robyn, but the mother Ted refers to is the biological mother. Will be an interesting twist.
  • rob brine
    I think that the current season 7 will end with Barney's wedding. I also feel that i will be to barney. So this is how they will be aunty and uncle to Ted's kids. I think that barny's step sister could be a very big possability!
  • Heyyo
    Just a question I don't really watch every single episode.
    Is everyone possitibly positive that those kids on the couch are teds kids?
    Like it's a fact?
    Cause maybe Ted is their "uncle" and robin is "aunt" robin?
    An who knows who the heck those kids parents are lol
  • Anonymous
    They call him dad in the episode when he tells them not to have sex. Good thought though.
  • Steve!  - WHY
    Why can't the mother be married to someone else and not Ted. Who's to say they didn't get divorced.
  • icon
    it obviously isn't robin. Myth 4, why does he refer to all his friends as Aunt and Unclethen, even if they wouldn't be related
  • Anonymous  - ted?
    wow wow wow. well, mabey ted isnt the father. i mean, i know he says aunt robyn and uncle marshle, but could he be an uncle ted? i mean, just think about it. it is like your aunt saying, and thats how i met your farther. just remember- aunts and uncles don't have to be family members. so my theroy is ted is an uncle.
  • tc
    there not related its just like in angel were they were all aunt cordy and uncle gunn but none of them were really reated more to the point but i do think barney and robin get married because on barneys wedding you see everyone but robin and they are the 2 anti marrige people so it makes sence
  • Saake  - I have it!!
    You see the following myth is true, but there is a heavy twist!

    Myth #5 (Most probable)

    Barney's (Half?) Sister

    One other possibility is that the mother is Barney's half sister. Since Barney doesn't know who his dad is yet, he will later find him, who will have a daughter. And as Dash said in the comments, when Barney's Brother, James Stinson adopted a baby, this was how Barney became uncle Barney. So Barney is Uncle to his brother James's kid, and will become Uncle again when his sister has a child with Ted.

    Update: In the episode Legendaddy, Barney meets his real father and it is revealed that he has a daughter called Karly who is in collage, and that his father lives near by. It has been mentioned that the mother was in an economics class that Ted mistakenly lectured at. Also, because we didn't meet her when Barney was at there house, it can mean that she lives elsewhere - I.e Cindie's house. As per meeting the mother at the wedding, this will be Barney's wedding, possibly with Nora (in which Barney's sister is introduced into the show) and that's how Ted and the future mother meets)


    If you look at episode 24 season 6, where Barny asked Nora for a cup of coffee, robin was standing there smiling, but as the camera closed in on Robin, she looked sad...

    This means Ted is meeting the mother at Barny's wedding, but not the wedding they want us to think. Barny and Robin is going to get married (thus explaining why they call them aunt and uncle)
  • Anonymous
    I like Nora and Barney together
  • blahblah  - my opinion
    i dont think its zoey's step daughter because lily comes out and says something about ted being a best man and i doubt zoey would let "the captain" choose ted as his best man so if anything its barney's wedding^.^
  • Anonymous
    I think it's Victoria (the woman who was baking a cake for a wedding ted was at) she came back and they talked she told him she was getting married and got on a bus. he didn't elaborate I think she may have changed her mind and comes back. i like her
  • Anonymous
    If it was Victoria the entire tv series would have ended when they got together, and they also would have gotten married
  • Sarah  - I believe it is definitely Barney's half sister.
    and this makes total sense of why it is "aunt robin", because barney could marry robin.....
  • Anonymous
    Just need to figure out how Marshall and Lilly become 'Aunt and Uncle'...

    Maybe Marshall's mom somehow marries into Barney's family.
  • jacob  - The kids
    Who's to say that the kids are indeed Ted's?

    "and here is the story of how i met your mother" not how i met my wife.

    Lily and marshall have their first kid in 2012, and the scene with the kids is from 2030.

    that would make their first kid 18 in 2030, which is possible.

    Im not sure if the kids ever call Ted dad, but I may have missed a few details through the years.
  • anon
    they commonly say dad,
    and ted says "am i a bad dad" at one point.
    sorry, :(
    although your idea does make sense
  • unknown
    there is no point trying to figure out who because even the directors havent thought who to use but the explanation you gave for it being barney's sister is really good
  • The Story  - ...
    actually I think barney marries robin because he broke up with nora and it´s obvious that they´re still in love....
  • Liz  - Barney's sister!!!
    It makes so much sense! I would be shocked if the Mother is not Barney's sister. On top of all the other reasons stated above, Barney and Robyn (I hope so very much) get married. That would make Barney Uncle and Robyn Aunt to Ted children. It explains the college class... Them meeting at the wedding... The fact that all the pieces add up so well, I am actually very excited to meet Barney's sister. How perfect would that be! Hopefully it will not be the end and the writers will find a way to keep the story going.
  • TKEGUY
    ok well we know there will be two seasons more at least probably since they've already been approved for them.. I do not think that anyone knows who the mother will be and we won't know until the series finale.. I don't know if the writers even know who they want to write in to be the mother... so all we can do is wait. Or, just throwing this out there someone correct me if i'm wrong, do we know the kids are Ted's kids? what if he is telling Marshall and Lily's kids how he met Lily??

    THOUGHTS!!!
  • OBSESSED WITH HIMYM
    isnt it victoria? from the wedding?
  • Andrea
    I'm not sure how true this is but I read that final scene where the mother is revealed and the kids are happy that the story is over has already been filmed. They did so because the kids would be so much older in the end. Especially how David Henrie (the son) looks nothing like he does on the couch. So filming wise, I'm a little confused
  • Anonymous
    Barney becomes "uncle" Barney in the episode where his gay brother comes and they find out he's got a partner and they're adopting a baby. At the end of this episode Ted says, "and that's how Barney became Uncle Barney." so I don't know bout the whole he gets married with robin thing...
  • The Guy being that guy
    Looking at your theories and the "facts" that you bring to the table, please just watch the show and have fun. I think you are looking into the show way too much as what is happening. Remember that the production teams are not perfect, and do make mistakes themselves, and that its possible that they don't have an answer for the question of who the mother is. Its possible that the show could be described as the same way Definitely Maybe was, just not been explained right now. Ted doesn't want to give the name of the mother. Just to hide what the kids might think of her after he is "finally" done.
  • Jack Cola
    But that's the fun to look into the show and try to work it out. It's like a 7 year mystery that everyone has to try and solve... but just more fun.
  • anon
    its quite weird how much the woman with a man and some kids in the picture behind teds kids as ted is telling the story looks like robin, but she cnt hav kids hm
  • JaredR  - The Mother was in the scene at the 2020 reunion
    In Season 3, Episode 5, we see Marshall, Lily and Ted at their college reunion. In the background, while Ted is realizing that he did not kiss Lily, there is a yellow umbrella.

    So, is the mother Alexa, who Ted was talking to when the umbrella appeared in the background?
  • justcrackapot  - Not really.
    Recent updates show that the creators of HIMYM hasn't cast the mother yet. They know the ending, but they don't know when it'll end. The mother will be shown lastly of course. Till then the mother is a mystery.
  • Karly  - Either Tracey or Karly(!)
    Well, having the name Karly, I really hope its Barney's half sister, KARLY:). Also, the whole economic's class and college roomate thing makes excellent sense. However, The theroy that her name is Tracey makes sense, but it wouldn't fit with the Karly Theroy. I think The Robin Sister's Theroy could be dismissed, because it is mainly based of off the "Aunt Robin" thing. most people have their kid's refer to their best friend as "Aunt" or "Uncle", hence Uncle Barney and Aunt Lily and Uncle Marshall. I dont think it's Zooey's step daughter, because though there may be some truth behind her age, that would just be weird. So if she is any of those Guess's, I'm Going with either a) Tracey or b) Karly (!!!:))
  • Turth
    It is a TV show and the writers have not figured who the mother is yet. They are going to string this out until people stop watching and the series is not making oodles of money anymore. Then they will have a lame finale.
  • zombatman  - iknow
    ted isn't thier dad, realdad anyway so he's explianing why he's in the picture, but sucks at it so he's tellin a bunch of kick ass stories
  • Max Manroe  - I think the mother is Robin
    Guys, I think the mother is Robin.
    I watch the movie often time, and we all know that Ted and Robin so in love from the first time they met.
  • kenzie
    i think the barneys half sister is a good guess..
    but they refer to lilly, ted, robin and barney as uncles and aunties.. shes just going to be a random person who is the room mate, or someone he has already met before, idk, ,
    and robin marries barney anyway,
  • David  - I might have figured this out
    Ok so the name of the series is "How I met YOUR mother." So Ted could met their mother but not marry her just friends I guess. :\ it probably isn't right but leave your responses
  • Anonymony  - Seems wrong
    It's not a secret that Zoey's stepdaughter is a little girl. Also it is never mentioned that Jerome's daughter took the economy class, it is only said that she is in college. The "uncle Barney" argument doesn't fit either since Ted also calls Lily "aunt Lily" and Marshall "uncle Marshall".

    The only myth that makes sense is the first one. Though i think it's very likely the producers didn't think of that sketch revealing the mother's name that early in the show.
  • Vergil
    I think it's the barmaid at the bar they go to all the time. I have yet seen Ted actually talk to her or even look at her.
  • truthstar  - Robin
    Theres no way its Robin, Ted says that his wife was in the Econimics class he thought was architecture. And pretty sure Robin doesnt go to college. And if by some chance she was she would of said something to him!
  • anonymous2  - robin is the mother or teds wife
    robin is the mother because she was at the economics class with ted when she tought she liked getting the attention tht kids recognized her, she was at the wedding and she couldof been the roomate and the umbrellas is robins and robin was the at the st patricks thing and they bumped but made us seem like another girl when it was her this whole time!!!!!!!!!!!!1111
  • albert coxs
    robin is teds wife. The kids are not teds kids. :no-comments:
  • Anonymous
    It's not Robin but I still think they will get married. The mother will be some random chick that he meets at a wedding. She will give birth to twins, the boy and the girl. Since Ted and Robin will remain friends they will call her Aunt Robin. Years later Ted and Robin will decide to get married. Keep in mind that Robin does not want kids but there are signs that she is good with them.
  • Jack Cola
    This could be very plausible.
  • love himym
    the mother is unknowing but he metshe when barney married i dont now who but i think its robin. they all were uncle and aunt becausethere are how a family like
  • Steven
    This argument about the kids not being teds kids. i think that it has to be teds kids because in the episode where ted finds out that his parents divorce i think its called 'Brunch' he says something like "when i have kids im gonna tell them the whole damn story" or something like that, and that is what he is doing. :)
  • chad  - why the friends are called aunt and uncle
    in the show he calls robin aunt robin, calls lily and marshall aunt and uncle lily and marshall and barney uncle barney. The above stats that some how the mother is somehow related to everyone in the group for them to all be aunt and uncles. with that being said they are probally god parents to ted kids making them aunts and uncles which would explain more how they are aunts and uncles instead of over thinking it and stating that its barney's half sister. and im positive robin going to break up with kumar soon and marry barney. lets be real people.
  • Ajay
    hmm... I dont even think Ted's their dad. At no point in the series does it explicitly state that ted is telling a story to HIS son & daughter. Perhaps he's just babysitting a common friend's kids, and telling them about how he met their mother!!
  • SPOILER  - SPOILER ALERT!
    The mother is Barney's half sister. Barney and Robin get married and Ted falls in love with carly at their wedding.
  • Anonymous
    there is no mom
  • Nicole
    I remember ted bumped into a girl and i was pretty sure that was the mother but i thought that was from the episode "the yips"
  • Iason
    Am I the only one really hoping that the mother is revealed earlier and gets at least a good half season on the show? I know it makes more sense that the mother is revealed in the very last scene of the series. I know it's called How I MET Your Mother, not How I Got To Know Your Mother.

    And I know that Ted and the mom are going to be perfect for each other and that it will all be great and predictable (they meet, they go on a date, Ted tells his friends about this awesome girl he met, the friends tell him to be careful because they've heard it all before from Ted, but a couple months later they are still happily dating, and eventually they marry). But I feel the fans should get to decide if we even LIKE the mother character. Honestly, a couple of episodes with her will be good enough. But if it's just a two minute scene I'll be dissappointed. And I DEFENITELY don't want to see the show end with Barney going up to the mom and saying "Haaaaaaaaaaaave you met Ted?" although I wouldn't be surprised.
  • mixer  - YEAH
    Yeah we should have a half of a season with the Mother
  • charley  - how i met your mother
    on one of the episodes ted begins telling the waitress how he met his wife and he begins by saying he was the best man at marshalls wedding...before she cuts him off..so she was at marshalls wedding.
  • Legendary  - For God's sake..
    So if they don't have the mother and they're still casting her,... that means that the mother isn't in the gang. And I wouldn't be surprised if Barney and Robin got married to other people as well.. They're just mind f-ing our brains.

    BUT OH GOD I WISH BARNEY AND ROBIN WOULD JUST GET MARRIED ALREADY.
  • Not Important  - 
    You sir, are an idiot. The only interesting part is asking: But who is the mother???
    That's what makes us see it every time, besides it's very funny...
  • Ted  - Mother
    The mother is the girl
  • Salad
    Ted isn't related to Barney, Robin, Marshel or Lily, in one of the episodes he says "I don't want to be that weird friend of the parents that the kids call Uncle Ted..:/" :)
  • wayne  - how i met your mother
    i think its totally robin
  • steve  - met your mother
    i think it was season 2 or 3 ted told the kids that they knew the shorter verison of how i met your mother and it should it small scene showing the yellow umbrella flying away on a street so i dont think they meet at a wedding
  • Ash  - destiny
    I don't know if it's Barney's half-sister, but it makes at least some sense.

    It would tie a lot of the whole reason about the story together.

    Attends the university that Ted is teaching at.

    Is the roommate who we've only seen her legs.

    While Ted hasn't met her, she might have met Barney and will be at the wedding.

    Ted's house he bought and the same one he is telling the story in, is near by to where Barny's father lives. Which would also make Barny's father, Ted's children's grandfather.

    It almost may be a little too obvious. But it would be nice since it brings so many different things together about how and why things came together like they have.

    I'm thinking part of it also is that if Ted had not met Robin, Barney would never had Robin in his life. If he had never met Robin, he would never have been fooling around in the museum with her and found out that Jerome is his father. If Barney did not have his father in his life, his sister would never have been at this wedding that Ted might met her at.



    Although, that's all speculative and most likely will be something completely different ;))
  • Brett
    Ted IS NOT talking to the kids of the woman he marries. It's that simple.
  • Anonymous  - robin is not the mother
    robin cant have kids so..
  • Anonymous
    My thought is that there is no mother and that at the end of the series its just going to show teds kids disapating and saying "kids, thats why you have no mother," and it turns out that the kids were just a figment of his imagination and hes just crazy
  • Dave
    That's one of the dumbest statements I've ever read. The ratings for that show would plummet if that were the case, 9/10 of how i met your mother fans would be pissed off.
  • buble  - how he met your mother
    i think it's your mother
  • Patina
    Obvious ly it's NOT robin! :(
  • Emily
    Do we even need to disuse this ? its barneys half sister. its been obivious for a season or two...
  • Tasha  - Bakery girl from Season 1
    I think it's the girl from Buttercup Bakery on Season 1. Yes the one that went away to school. She was only supposed to be gone for a couple years meaning she could've been at the St. Patties party and she couldnt get in. And her baking a wedding cake at Barneys wedding makes perfect sense as a way to introduce her back into the show. Hmmmmm....... :x
  • Jack Cola
    You mean Victoria
  • Michael  - AUNT ROBIN EXPLAINED?!
    :0
    WHAT IF ROBIN BECOMES AUNT ROBIN, BECAUSE SHE MARRIES BARNEY, and when Ted marries Barneys Sister, Robin becomes family, and an Aunt! :O

    Breakthrough?
  • Ryan  - How it will go down
    I expect during the wedding (it will probably be Barney's wedding), it'll start raining since Ted told Marshall he was worried about it raining. He left the yellow umbrella (a very distinct color) back at the Cindy and her roommate's apartment.

    Naturally...no matter who's wedding it is... that girl is either going to help Ted when it starts raining...or use the yellow umbrella...and Ted is going to put two and two together.

    With the show building up the suspect, I bet they'll end the season with him seeing her...but not meeting her...and they'll make a plot about him trying to find her the following season or something.

    That's what I'm thinking...thoughts?
  • barneysmylove  - not robbin
    i think barney and robin are gonna marry and ted will meet the right woman in that wedding so she should be someone that they meet before barneys wedding plus ted wouldnt call robin, aunt robbin he would directly say your mom and robins not the roommate of the other girl shes teds roommate indeed and i dont think her name is tracy either because kid might have been afraid that the mom they have now isnt their real mother thats why they freaked out n?t because they were shocked about the story
  • Fred
    It's definately Barney's sister, because of that quote up there somewhere about when Barney meets his real dad, "And that's how Barney became uncle barney." If Barney wasn't related to the mother than he would be "uncle" because of friendship, then why would that statement be made when Barney meets his real family? Doesn't make sense if not.
  • BoBo the Clown
    I know this is a horrid thought, but what if the mother Ted is talking about to his kids is really a surrogate mother? Maybe she is the not the person he is with. Maybe his partner could not have kids.
  • Suzan  - There will be no mother
    Ted will never marry. He will adopt two child.
  • Anonymous
    In the newest episode they hint that Ted is still in love with Robin.. maybe they will date again but I hate knowing that she can't possibly be the mother... :(
  • ella  - re:
    but if ted marries barneys sister then that means that it would be uncle barney and aunty robin

    :0
  • Anonymous
    It cant be robin because in a episode Ted says that his wife was at the St paties party. Robin was not their
  • Haley?  - Whaatttevvverr
    The only reason why Ted calls his friends Aunt Lilly and Aunt Robin, Unlce Barney And Uncle Marshel because there bestfriends. Duhh.! Its the person under neath the Yellow Umbrella. At first I thought it was going to be Stella but its obviously isnt her. But at the very beginning I thought it was going to be Robin but then I heard him say Aunt Robin. So who knows if we will ever find out who the Mother is.
  • Anonymous  - You guys need to chill out...
    There are a couple of things that you guys are thinking wrong:

    1. ROBIN IS NOT THE MOTHER! Anyone who still thinks that is a complete idiot. I can back it up with facts like she is infertile, but I don't need to.

    2. Those kids are Teds kids. It would be a terrible show if they were someone else's kids, plus, that idea is just stupid.

    3. Anyone who says the kids are adopted or they are just figments of Ted's imagination have it all wrong.

    4. Ted does not marry robin's sister, when he is 29, she is 16. Creepy. And plus they are called Aunts and Uncles because they are close friends.

  • Xarbin  - Robin
    Well it's apparent she's not the mother but it doesn't mean her and Ted aren't together. Maybe Ted had kids with a woman and it didn't work out. I don't know about you but I like comedies where you build up a couple and a relationship. Since season one I've loved Ted and robin. I also think the show set itself up for failure because in the "pilot" they mentioned aunt robin because a) there was no Gaurentee that the show would succeed, and b) robin was originally supposed t be a minor character. Look at jd and Elliot's relationship in scrubs and how similar they are. It would do a disservice to the viewers if the mother was introduced this late without us falling in love with the character. This is all my opinion though
  • Anonymous
    I think Robyn and Barney will marry and all that malarkey, although I'd love of Robyn was the mother :(
  • josh  - shannen doherty?
    if u pause the episode no tomorrow, just as ted and barney are about to enter the club a girl walks by in jeans and a leather jacket and looks surprisingly alot like shannen doherty... anyone else notice this?
  • 24zz  - my theory
    ok listen at the wedding of either barney or punchy most lilkly the mother has to know barney or punchy to want to go to the wedding :ooo: It cant be robin because the first episode says that the mother is not her and what i also thing that it cannot be a blonde!!! Remember the episode where Ted doesnt marry stella because it shown his kids as some blonde haired kids so it cannot be zoey.
  • Michelle  - this is a waste of time. but i need to waste some.
    myth 1. that's wishful thinking, its not necessary that ted uses exact dialogues while narrating the story to his kids. its not necessary that he uses the name Tracy.
    myth 2. both girls don't look alike and why should bumping imply anything?
    myth 3. there is no evidence to that. it cant be proved or disproved.
    myth 4. family friends are usually referred to as aunts and uncles
    myth 5. probable. the writers may think it fits all the weird clues they've given. but the character would just be tailor made to wrap up the story.
    myth 6. could be. but it would be made up and unnatural just like myth 5.

    its obvious that the makers haven't decided who the mother is, but will in the near future. and it will be unexpected or else the romantic storyline would be pointless. and if the makers think that everyone believes its barney's sis or the capt's daughter, they wont do that storyline... if they do, isn't that expected? the end HAS TO BE UNEXPECTED. going by how good the show is, it will be.

    the children are ted's and he is talking about his wife and their mother. the makers wouldn't lead us on for all this time if that wasn't true.

    there could a million storylines which would satisfy all the inane clues and i'm sure the makers will come up with one of those soon. and if they dont satisfy everything.. its artistic license. it is just a sitcom after all.

    a good day to everyone!
  • Mr. Vanderhorne
    Well if they haven't wrote who the mother is in the show and they're just making it up as their going then they're screwed. If they choose someone and it doesn't add up, due to us then were gonna let them have it, right? Just don't hope they cancel the show if they've dug themselves into a whole they can't get out of
  • Nathan  - can't be Robin!
    Robin marries Barney. so it can't be Robbin.
  • HIMYM  - Its Robin---HIMYM
    Come on guys its robin... she has lead role. How can she be aunt?? de are misguiding us but robin is mother only. OMG!!! she is so cute...
    ted and robin together look
    perfect.. :D :love: :love:
  • Myfate  - Victoria
    It's Victoria!!! They already met at a wedding an the hair and everything would match with his kids!! So far we don't know if she really marrys that Klaus! And she always comes in at weddings an partys to bake!
  • Anonymous
    we will never really know who the mom is untill the end so untill then just assume she is perfect, because nobody but perfect ppl can deal with ted ;)
  • sarah  - Please stop e-mailing me
    Please stop e-mailing me
  • Jack Cola
    Hi Sarah,

    You shouldn't receive any more emails.

    Regards,
    Jack
  • net  - Robin and ted?
    in the last episode, ted says robin i love you
  • MSG  - The Twist!!
    Ted is talking about how he met their mother. He doesn't say he is the father. The children are Barney's and future wife's.
  • Dave
    Holy Cow man! That is the most visionary statement I have ever heard about this show. You may be a genius. Actually no, because he's "uncle barney" good theory though.
  • Anonymous
    The truth of the mother will never be revealed.
    We will never know who the mother is.
  • Jenn  - 2015
    If your concept is right. We are in the yr 2012 we only have 3 more yrs of the show to find out who Ted Marys
  • Anonymous
    its that blond girl whos name i dont rember and i think she has a daughter. shes the one who left ted at the isle.
  • Felipe  - my theory
    My theory is Karma from last night episode
  • Justin  - Aunt Robin
    older Ted refers to all his friends as Aunt and Uncle. So, duh.. he calls Robin Aunt Robin because they're still friends in the future.
  • Ann Marie  - How I met Your Mother Reveiled
    I don't think it's Robin's sister or anything like that because he says Uncle Marshall and Aunt Lily as well with Uncle Barney and Aunt Robin. I think he just says they are family because that's how close of friends they are.
  • Camilla  - Who is the mother? Well - who is the father?
    My thoughts are, the kids are not Teds. :) So he's telling the story of how he met the kids mother, not his wife. So his wife/girlfriend might even be Robin, if this was to be true.
  • Glenn  - Last Nights Episode
    Okay so i’ve watched all the seasons and just watched the last episode…

    Question: Does ted ever refer to Aunt Lilly / Uncle Marshall ??? Sitting here asking myself that, I just can’t remember.

    So my theory: The kids aren’t Ted’s, he has been best friends with Marshall for a looooong time, so I am thinking what if the Kids are Lilly’s and Marshall’s? My theory can’t possibly be correct cause Lilly and Marshall features in every episode. However… I do believe I am correct in saying the Kids aren’t Ted’s. I also think that Ted does marry Robin, which would make sense in the “Aunt Robin” if the kids aren’t Ted’s. Maybe we haven’t met the Mom yet? Maybe we have… it’s also possible that we will never find out, the show might leave us to make up our mind who we think the “mother” is.

    I think that most of us want Ted and Robin to be together, and I believe that’s what the writes of the show makes us believe.

    Who knows, maybe Marshall and Lilly is the parent of the kids ??? Maybe the show will take us back to when Ted met Lilly for the first time. We do see flashbacks, and could be that if there ever is a last episode that we see Ted meeting Lilly for the first time.

    Anyways, if we never know and we have to make up our own minds, then so be it, I love the show, it’s funny, it makes my week and right now it makes me think

  • kms  - ...
    so lilly went to college, took economics & lives in a different apartment? :x
  • tintin
    if she is Lilly .... how was she in Econ 305 ? how was she in Cindy's apartment ?
  • Pablo
    I think he becomes Gay, and marry's Barny... :0
  • Anonymous  - Robin + Barney
    I really really want robin to marry barney! Or atleast theyre together one more time :love:
  • Anonymous
    he didn't met her in the wedding, i mean, in some episode he said: and that's how I met your mother, and it was Stella, however it was stupid if it was stella because she married some guy after some episodes. However she had that yellow umbrella. its to risky to say some names, but im pretty sure it wasnt stella or robin.
    I bet the producers made it to be stella then they regret it ...?
  • Abby  - the mom
    ITS NOT REALATED to robin,barney,marshall or lily BECAUSE think about this when you have a really close friend you might say they are your brother or sister, right? SO ted's kids would probably call robin, barney, lily and marshall there aunts and uncles so the mom doesn't have to be related to them. :0 yea oh snap!
  • youallsuck
    all you guys are a bunch of idiots arguing about this topic
  • John  - Here is the final take on who the mother is:
    Most recent episode, the mother is the girl that denies Barney while they both play wingman for Ted and her friend. You've heard it here first.
  • Mitch  - Mother is dead
    My theory is that the kids mother is dead, and robin is now with Ted hence aunty robin named affectionately so. The whole point in Ted telling the Ida the story is because their mother died when they were very young...theory only..I just think it fits
  • mv  - the murderer aka barney
    :x what the heck this show is like pretty little liars! :0 :ooo:
  • sam  - ending theory
    ted will have kids to a different woman in the future...but will soon get divorse,when ted realizes that he still has feelings for robin...thats why the kids call her aunt robin, shes their step mom. :0
  • Izzy  - Knowledge Bomb?
    Alright so based off what we know from all the previous posts and from the most recent episode I would like to take a shot at figuring this out now. Here is what I think:
    Ted and Robin DO get married. As people have stated before the kids don't have to be Ted's. He could be telling the kids how he met their genetic mother.
    It could be that all the clues that have been given throughout the various episodes show that the mother is the girl from the Econ 305 class, and the roommate of the girl he was going out with before. What if that girl had children but gave them up for adoption and Ted managed to get Robin to finally agree to adopt? That means that Ted would be able to marry Robin while at the same time Ted is telling the adopted kids, or if the kids are in fact Barny's, how he met their mother since all the guys are already factored out.
    This is of course all just speculation, but it does seem viable so far. I do suspect that Ted and Robin get married and I'm pretty sure that those aren't Ted's kids and he is simply telling them the story of how he met their birth mother.

    If there are any potential loopholes or errors in this statement please shine light on it, as I am really curious in trying to piece this together!
  • Spencer Ellis
    Right, Barney and robin get married where ted meets his future wife. Marshall and Lily get married and have kids. Yes doesn't marry anyone related to his friends and his kids call them aunt and uncle as they are friends. It states that the mother is in his first class which ted accidentally taught, but was also a roommate of one of his ex-girlfriends. I say you watch that episode where ted teachers the wrong class and the. You cancel it down from the girls in there if you really want to know but I say the supsension is good although sometimes tempted to know!!
  • no name
    :ooo: Robin and ted are togather,,,totly nailed it....
  • Lasey
    I think the end is going to be an unreliable narrator thing. That’s happened several times over the course of the show. I think it will come to a point where Ted has to decide between one woman and Robin. Then it will be revealed the kids he was talking to this whole time don’t exist and Ted was just imagining what it would be like if he married the other woman, but in real life he actually married Robin.
  • your mom  - your mom
    :angry-red: i think its your mom
  • Anonymous
    In the pilot episode, the kids call the narrator dad... So yes, they are his kids.
  • inthebegining99  - Dont be a Di**
    I personally think its myth #2, as soon as the narrator said he met her at the party they bump into each other, he doesnt Have to be a script writer to figure that one out, i acctually found this site because i had the same idea!
  • chappy  - wrong
    it was at barneys wedding when ted met the mother and the yellow embrelua is zoeys
  • Logan
    Ted refers to all of his close friends as the aunts and uncles of his children. And the wedding turned out to be the wedding of Barney and robin.
  • Anonymous  - blah
    now we know it's barneys wedding so i think zoey's step daughter is out, and i agree with abby - the mom
  • Anonymous
    robin cant ave kids
    but i think shes the wife just not the mom
  • Jamie Fitz

    Ted could have kids with a woman and then divorce her and then marry Robin. Just for people saying there is no way they can end up together. Barney should remain a single guy all the way through too. Its what people like best about him.
  • pete hitchen
    my mums best mates '' i call them aunt n uncle so it doesnt mean anything just coz ted says "aunt robin or uncal barny" and he also says aunt lilly and uncle marchal so :p
  • Anna  - Holly
    If the mother's name is Tracy, the theory of Zoey's steph-dauther falls apart as we learned in "Blitzgiving" that her name is Holly.
  • Brian Kopalis  - Finally Told!!
    Before you all try to figure out who the mother is, you should highly consider that Ted is NOT the narrarator of this story. Hmmmm............
  • Louis  - It has to be robin!! it just has to be!!!!!!
    Think about this. At the end of last nights episode, when lily tells marshall to pay up for the bet they made about ted and robin not ending up together, Marshall says "not yet", and poses a confident smile. Who better to foreshadow future events between ted and robin than Ted's own best friend. The writers at HIMYM are extremely clever, they will find a way to fit all the pieces together to make it work between them. Just watch!!!!!!! :D :D
  • Quidditch12  - Unreasonable
    This is no offense to any one or the guy who made this but I think none of these are correct. If you were listening to a story for so long and were ready for anyone be your mom, that knocks out Tracy. In the episode " False Positive" Robin says she will have a niece, and she will be an aunt, K.O. To divorce for any of them. I think that it could be anyone at this point, someone we have not met, but obviously it is Barney's wedding. Nothing against your answers.
  • katie  - www.facebook.com/malik.holeman/
    they meet at Robin and Barneys wedding :love:
  • bryan  - stupid producers
    LOOK!! I AM GETTING REALLY MAD BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SHOWING THE MOTHER!!!! THE PRODUCERS NEED TO SHOW WHO THE MOTHER IS, OR I AM GOING TO GO ON A STRIKE!!!!!!!
  • Michelle  - Aunt and uncle
    When robin finds out about lily being pregnant in " false positive" even robin refers to herself as aunt robin. With this being said I do not think the kids are really related. Also Ted says in an episode that when he has kids he is going to tell them the entire story of how he met their mother. I believe the kids are really his. Also they refer to him as dad a few times( I believe one example is the season two premiere)
  • Barrack Obama  - gays
    I'm horny right now. Damn you homosexuals. I met your mother on a stripping pole when I was putting twenties on her titties bitch.
  • Arch
    they are surely ted's kid's, because they call him dad several times.

    Mother isn't Robin for sure, because she never lived with Cindy and Ted met robin long before Barney's wedding. Plus she can't have kids.

    It has to Robbin that Barney marries, because Lilly comes to Ted and Barny on Barny's wedding day and says "Ted bride wants to see you". If the bride is someone he doesn't know that well, why would she want to see him. Remember Ted promised to be Robin's best man if she ever get married.

    I'm guessing the mother should be Barny's half sister. It makes scene for her to get invited to Barny's wedding. She's in collage and it's possible she was in the economics class when Ted was teaching it... but I guess we'll have to wait and see.
  • jen  - Psst Please!!!
    the only myth that may have some sense is the number 1. hehe please, you can compare the girl starting from a jeans >.> the myth 3 maybe is something but we dont know something about that >.> the 4,5 the peolpe alredy told you the guys are very close to ted, like aut lily and uncle marshall >.>

    have a good day xD... SO we just know about tracy!! xD
  • leonela  - Barney's sister is the mother
    I deffinately believe the Barney's half sister theory! Not only is Carly a college student but in the episode where Ted goes on a date with Cindy, there us a plaque in the backgrounf that says C+C, which could possibly stand for Cindy and Carly!!!!!
  • Eric  - 123
    Guys...you're making this all way too complicated. Ted IS the narrator. Someone said that he might not be and it made me LOL.

    Listen up - Robin is not the mother and the kids Ted is speaking to are certainly his. But the show is as much about finding the mother as it about finding Ted's true love which are not the same thing.

    Ted will eventually meet the mother at Barney's wedding. Barney will marry one of her friends and she'll likely be the maid of honor (to Ted's best man). She will also likely be the girl the Love Solutions computer matched him to be with (and quite possibly Barney's half-sister that we all know lives in the city and goes to college).

    But they will not stay together because his true love is Robin. I'm sure he'll go on to say some awesome speech about how love isn't found on a computer. And Robin will get over her fear/dislike of children for Ted because she realizes it was him all along. They will get married, the kids will understand their Dad's story and Marshal will win his bet that Ted and Robin ended up together.



  • Arious  - Robin and Barney Wed
    The wedding where ted meets the future wife is when Barney marries Robin. In the episode where barney has the diamond suit Ted proves how great of a best man he is Robin asks Ted to be her future best man. Therefore it makes both Robin and Barney literal aunts and uncles.
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